Is Cooking Together All That Hard?

Gabriella Gershenson
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8 min readMay 14, 2019

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Co-author of books with Suzanne Goin and Jessica Koslow has written a book on cooking for newlyweds

Photos: Aya Brackett

I never really got the concept of “cooking together.” The image that comes to mind is the cliché rom-com scene where the hot guy stirs a pot of his special sauce and gives his girlfriend a taste from a wooden spoon, making her go “mmmm.”

Then I met my future husband, and we started doing our version of “cooking together,” which mostly means cooking for each other. When we cook together, a natural division of labor occurs. I’m good at mise en place, and I like to bake. Bernie is excellent at setting pan to flame and has a way with meat. But even when we are cooking from one recipe, our activities still feel separate. Is this what cooking together is supposed to be?

When I heard that Maria Zizka, co-author of books with Suzanne Goin, Elizabeth Prueitt and Jessica Koslow, was writing The Newlywed Table: A Cookbook to Start Your Life Together, I was intrigued. Normally, I would roll my eyes at something that at first glance seems retrograde, but I had reason to believe that Zizka would offer a fresh take on what it means to cook while in a relationship.

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Gabriella Gershenson
Heated

Gabriella Gershenson is a James Beard Award-nominated food journalist based in New York City. Follow her on Twitter and Instagram @gabiwrites.